Sunday, 18 August 2013

Life in a Metro...




Life in a Metro...

Day 4, Thursday...


With different experiences for the first three days of the week, from the exhaustible journey to the encounters of love, I had it all. Till now, life had never been so random before. Travelling in ‘Metro’ itself gives your life a different dimension altogether where your short span of journey may consists of lifelong learning. And if you are still left with your share, then we have our own ‘Metro’ city, DELHI to enthrall us with its naive yet complicated charm each time.


   It was ‘4’ in the morning when the phone started ringing. Ignored initially but I ended up switching the phone off as it kept on ringing. After a tiring and exhausting journey, it is not easy to wake up from sleep which we hardly get these days. But even after the phone was set off, the restlessness was still there.  Eyes weren’t open but the curiosity didn't let the peace to prevail and apprehensive mind kept on hovering on different possibilities. After exhausting almost all the apprehensions, I finally woke up with frustration and anger. Set the phone on and all of a sudden the anger and frustration turned into euphoria. It was my childhood school friend who called up after a long time.


We all breathe in such a fast paced life that we don’t get the time to meet ourselves even, so friends, family, relatives and everyone connected to us becomes secondary. We forget or perhaps refuse to remember our own identity, the purpose of our survival and succumb to this life as the way it comes. Not to blame ourselves, we don’t have a choice    but even if we would have, we prefer to overlook the options. And for some who overlook and try to step off the hierarchy, meets with the ego which restricts them to initiate, to initiate by their own.


“We all prefer to be loved rather than rendering the same”


  As I firmly believe that we all are remembered not for the way we were but for the choices we made. So, I chose to be the way I am now. I immediately called him back.


Post completion of school, he moved to Bangalore and it was rare that we used to meet and whenever we did, it used to be for a few hours. And owing to the habits which this life let an individual develop, we also become habitual of the same lately. When we could share our sorrows, our joys, our lives with each other, we used to discuss the way our organization works, the position we possess, the flexibility in the work environment and all the formal things. It’s not that we did not wanted to talk, we did want to, but the sense of togetherness was lost. We used to talk but only for the purpose of it. We had forgotten ourselves, our individuality and became a follower of the league which we never supposed to.


I called him back. He picked up and asked if we could meet. He was supposed to leave the same evening. I was really happy and the moment I was about to say a ‘yes’, I realized that it was a client meet that day and most importantly, I was leading that project.  I informed the same to him but I really wanted to meet. Sometimes, life renders such moments which give momentarily happiness making you realize  the importance of things but when you get attached and begin to perceive in that manner, all it seems as a bluff.


  Getting a call from my friend to meet up after a long time was supposed to be a cherishing moment but like always, destiny again restricted my pathways. I was already upset after almost getting disturbed with the ring of the phone call and then there was this plan which got haywire. No one wishes such a disturbed morning. It was 5:00 by the time it all happened. Neither I could sleep, nor could I get ready to go to office then. Still laid on the bed with no peace in mind and then the restlessness prevailed.


After starting the day on a disgusted note, it seemed so dull. And to add to the woes was the routine which desirably or undesirably became a part of my life. Followed it as usual, had breakfast and departed for office. I resembled an irritated duckling. When I tried to enter the bus, there were people who didn't let me enter. Frustrated with the things, I end up shouting on the crowd. I furiously hired an auto-rickshaw to reach to the Metro station. The fare was almost ten times the fare of bus. Another issue faced by Metro cities. The Public Transport buses are either not on time or are jam packed where you can’t even imagine entering. As a result, the Auto-Rickshaw drivers take full advantage of the crisis cheating public to an extent where it end up falling prey to all these malpractices.


“Life in a metro has a virtue of colors of which mostly are the shades of black”


It is rightly said, your surroundings reflect whatever you feel. The environment seemed dull as I was feeling low. I boarded the ‘Metro’ train with all the projections for client meeting in mind. Till this time, it was clear that I would not be meeting my friend. But as always, no matter how hard you try, whatever has to happen have to happen... Fate dominates the reality. ‘You never get more than what is yours and not before the time is right.’


  A couple entered on one of the station. They seemed to be in a hurry. The husband requested a man to give the seat to his wife as she was pregnant and expecting a child soon. But as there is god, there is devil. The city comprises of people who are always ready to help, and there also are the ones who never help, yet another flavor of the ‘Metro’ city. The man didn't give her the seat. Moreover, he advised the husband to take her to the first coach, which is reserved for ladies despite of knowing her condition. Metro cities commonly witness people who are always up for ‘free’ advice but when it comes to helping others, they prefer to handover the pleasure to others.


And while all this was happening, ‘Metro’ stopped with strong breaks amidst two stations. Mobile network also lost the coverage. We were totally stuck and amongst the most affected was the pregnant lady. She started getting labor pains. She was weeping out loud. On one hand, it was ‘Metro’ which stopped and it was the suffering lady on the other. ‘Metro’ was resounded by her screams. At one point, everyone felt helpless. The worst part was to see her husband seeking for help, crying out, asking everyone if something could be done...


  This day was the worst day ever witnessed in a ‘Metro’. But what happened afterwards turned the worst into best. Little did we know in our lives that there still are people who care for the fellow humans, for their lives. Believe it as the presence of God or regard it as any supernatural energy but there was something which made all of us realize that miracles do happen.


There was a middle aged woman who came out to help her. She asked everyone to move to a different coach except for a few other women who could help. Some of them covered her with a cloth and that lady carried out the delivery. While all this happened, I witnessed something which we hardly encounter these days. Almost everyone in ‘Metro’ was praying for the safety of that lady and her newborn.


AND A FEW MINUTES LATER...


The ‘Metro’ resounded with the cries of the infant. The lady spoke aloud, “We got a baby boy”. That was a sigh of relief for all of us and especially for the father. He burst into tears thanking all the people who helped. There was calmness and peace which prevailed all across the ‘Metro’. Amidst all this, I forgot my frustration completely and was rather involved with the emotions of the people who I didn't even know. Same would be the case for many other as well.


  We all are humans and there is a human in all of us. Preference is an option. We all ignore to choose the human living in us. That day, we all chose humanity above all. The reward was to see a family united, a father’s peaceful smile, a mother’s joy and an infant cries. Though the reward doesn't seem to have a value, but this reward was simply priceless and incomparable.


Metro staff informed the doctors on the arriving station. The fault was corrected and the services resumed again. Metro finally reached to a station after getting stuck for almost an hour. And then an announcement was made, “The baby boy who took birth in a ‘Metro’ is declared to be the Mascot for Delhi ‘Metro’. “Metro rumbled with a big applaud. This experience, this journey became exhilarating for all of us.


  And finally the mobile network also began to work. As soon as it got into range, the phone again started ringing. It was a call from the office. Whenever you know you have been called by your boss, it certainly is not a good feeling especially when you know that you are late to office.  I picked the call and began to give an explanation to the boss. Whatever he said, was also once in a while experience. Generosity is not his cup of tea, but he was generous that day.

Me: - Hello Boss! Good Morning! I am really sorry. This Metro! I am really pissed off now. Their services again collapsed today.

He: - Yeah! I know. It’s getting worse with more and more people opting for it. I also reached the office late today. Anyways, the meeting got canceled.

Me: - What? How it got canceled? It was an important meeting for the clients.
He: - Clients also got late and then postponed the meeting. At least, Metro is helpful to some of us.

(We both burst into laugh but the moment when you get to know that your boss is also late is surely a peaceful feeling and I can vouch for it!)

Me: - Alright Boss! That sounds really good. I was tensed (though I was not).

He: - That’s OK!  You may take an off today. Tomorrow is another important review. Prepare for it.

Me: - Oh! Thank you so much Boss!

He: - OK then! See you at review tomorrow.

Me: - Sure Boss! Thank you once again. Bye.

Whenever you desperately need something, you usually don’t get it but the moment you lose the hope of getting it, you get it. Life though ironical is nothing less than a fictional thriller in which you can never determine what the end would be until it arrives.


  The moment he asked me to stay back and take a leave, I called my friend and to all my surprise he was still there in the city. I boarded the ‘Metro’ again to meet him to rejuvenate all the bonds which got strong with tides of time...


And that concludes the journey which started on a dull note. All our life, we mostly spend our time thinking what could have been possibly true and what we could have done. We always strive for betterment and that is something which we always aim for, but there is no end to this search of betterment. And, we compromise or learn to compromise what we have despite of its utmost importance. It’s not that we don’t realize, the sense of realization is always there but there always lies a preference, a preference which we all opt for.


“Life in a Metro” is a journey which not only reflects important aspects towards an individual’s journey of life but also helps to differentiate the preference. A preference can change an individual’s life.


“Life in a Metro is a never ending tale which began just to continue forever”